Talking about death and planning ahead at a local community event

Many people say they would like a “good death”, but few have the chance to talk about what that really means for them, or how to plan ahead. This October, we are bringing people together in Harpenden for a relaxed, supportive afternoon to explore these questions.

Creating space for honest conversations

Thinking ahead – a conversation about future care is a free community event designed to help people reflect on their own wishes for future care, understand the choices available to them, and feel more confident supporting someone they care about.

The session will explore what a “good death” can mean, both personally and practically, and how planning ahead can help ensure that people’s preferences are known, understood and respected.

Understanding future care choices

Dr Bethan Rees, Clinical Director from Harpenden Primary Care Network, and Dr Sarah Klinger from Rennie Grove Peace Hospice Care will talk through the benefits of tools such as Advance Care Planning and the ReSPECT form, and explain how these can help people communicate their wishes and preferences for future care.

Staff from Rennie Grove Peace will also be on hand to explain the support available locally and answer questions in a warm and reassuring setting.

A relaxed, welcoming afternoon

Whether you are thinking about your own future wishes, supporting a loved one, or simply want to understand more about end-of-life care, the event offers a safe space to ask questions and talk openly about death and dying.

The event takes place on Thursday 8 October 2026, from 2pm to 4pm, with doors opening at 1.45pm, at Bennet’s Club, 21 Leyton Road, Harpenden, AL5 2HU.

It is free, drop-in and open to everyone. You do not need to RSVP, but registering in advance will help us plan for the afternoon.